Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

member_abc751525a · 2026-09-02T22:30:23.000Z · 0 replies

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After a lot of patience and good fortune, I’ve found myself with a mistress who’s keen on being the key holder for my fantasy. I’d been dreaming about being locked up for quite some time but hit a few snags along the way. The first time I ever got locked was doing it all by myself using an affordable knock-off version of what I think is a CB2000, though after several days of getting hard-ons the unit split right down its seam. Even after patching it up with some Zap-A-Gap CA glue, the device eventually gave way again at that same spot, ending my fantasy in the process.

The only other near-miss involved an ex-girlfriend who had serious trust issues and wanted me to wear one simply because she didn’t trust me—not exactly a turn-on since we weren’t really operating under any master-slave dynamic back then.

Lately though, I’ve connected with a lady friend who shares all my interests and has also been eager to try this out. After chatting quite a bit about it—and considering my past experiences with plastic devices as well as the potential for long-term chastity ahead—we’re planning to invest in a nice steel belt. We’re currently looking at a Steelworxx Steelheart paired with a PA lock (which really gets me excited because it eliminates any possibility of escape without her key).

One challenge we face is that she recently had to move away, but we still want to keep playing. Our solution for needing releases during emergencies or whenever she feels like letting me touch myself involves using an index card with a unique design or signature (we’re thinking I’ll have a stack of these cards already signed, dated, and numbered by her). The spare key will be taped onto the card using packaging tape in such a way that removing it would damage the card. This means we don’t need to spend big money on those expensive one-time-use key safes, while still giving me easy access to the key whenever necessary.

Since this is our first time doing things long-distance, what other issues should we prepare for? What can we expect?

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