A Year of Chastity Review

We’ve been together over two decades and have always had a kinky side to our relationship. This year, we leaned even more into it than usual. I started seeing a kink-aware therapist just over a year ago. Around February, my wife suggested that I begin behaving more like her lifestyle slave. As is typical for us, there were some ups and downs throughout the year, but I haven’t had an orgasm outside of her presence for roughly ten months now. When I do climax, about half are ruined. Some advice from a professional domme led us to our therapist, who then recommended another pro domme after our previous one moved away. It just goes to show how useful networking is in the city. We’ve had several sessions with this new pro dome and they have been wonderful. Most of them involve me being humiliated, denied, and set aside while my wife gets thoroughly satisfied. If you hear complaints about professional dommes, it’s likely because those people haven’t experienced a good one. My wife has dated women on occasion as well. One such date involved me working on my laptop in the coffee shop across the street for four hours straight. I have to admit, I was jealous. She also visited our house once or twice recently, but not exactly for playtime; it can be quite a rush. She would really like to cuck me with a male friend-with-benefits. Who knows what might happen? I find myself more envious than jealous in that scenario. With significantly less time spent wanking, I run much more frequently. Since starting this new “lifestyle” phase, I’ve dropped about 30 lbs. We don’t rely heavily on devices for our dynamic yet. Perhaps I should experiment with them a bit more in 2019.