Frustrated Husband Seeks Advice on Wife's Skepticism of Chastity and Orgasm Denial

Hi all. I’m just starting out here and new to chastity overall. It’s been a fetish of mine for some time, and when I brought it up with my wife, she seemed cautiously interested. I bought two devices (one plastic, one metal) plus the “Guide for Keyholders” book. We went through the guide together, but except for an episode about six weeks ago, we haven’t really used the cages much.

My wife is doubtful about chastity and completely puzzled by orgasm denial (for me). I feel like I’ve already spent all my bravery just discussing it with her and purchasing the gadgets. It’s starting to look like this might not work out, which is a shame since it gives me a huge thrill. If she gets even slightly into it, I’d be thrilled. I really want us to share this experience.

Of course, if one partner likes something and the other doesn’t, you can’t force it. So things will probably remain fairly standard unless we make some adjustments.

Does anyone here (men or women) have advice on how to discuss this more? Or should I just toss the devices aside and move on?