chastity and its potential beyond just BDSM dynamics

Greetings everyone who might have missed my introductory post. I am a young guy, currently 27 years old. My wife and I have experimented with various dynamics in our marriage, reaching a sort of steady state now—a good one, hopefully! She isn’t naturally very kinky, but she has supported me as best she could before, which makes me love her even more. Conversely, I’ve made an effort to be more traditional and masculine for her, though I often fail because I eventually slip back into a submissive and feminine headspace.

After all this trial and error, we seem to have found common ground. I feel that she is growing much more comfortable wielding power and directing me on what she wants rather than just asking. Currently, I am in chastity around the clock without adding other kinks (she allows me to wear panties daily). We are essentially using the device to help manage my submissive nature, effectively curbing my tendency to masturbate while watching BDSM porn. Our routine involves regular sex, but I remain strictly chaste during the intervals.

I really wish she would step into a more dominant role and utilize the device to its fullest extent, though I can’t complain too much since she is actually using it at all.