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I think I’ve been wearing this cage for about six weeks now, and I figured it was high time to share my experiences with it.

Before this year, chastity wasn’t really on my radar. However, I’ve had an interest in femdom since I was around fifteen years old. For a long time, I’ve been masturbating daily while watching femdom porn, especially focusing on pegging and cp content.

Two years ago, I started dating my girlfriend. She’s completely vanilla but we have a wonderful relationship. Interestingly, despite being together for two years, she has never penetrated me because I’ve historically lacked interest in penetrative sex—perhaps due to low libido mixed with excessive masturbation; not sure exactly why.

When I learned that chastity could keep you perpetually horny, it seemed like the perfect fix for our dynamic. My concern was that she’s too vanilla and might resist the idea. Eventually, I ordered the spiral cage from Tickleberry (which is also marketed by Gerecke as the Twister 2). After chatting with her, I opened up about my masturbation habits, femdom interests, and what steps I’d taken to improve things. To my surprise, she was very open-minded and agreed to be my key holder. I even bought her Lucy Fairbourne’s book so she could learn more.

Once the device arrived, I wore it occasionally while getting used to it, mostly at night when I’m prone to masturbating. However, after a week or so, I ended up taking it off around 4 am because slight sizing issues made it too uncomfortable.

After that initial week, we had some evening alone time where she started sending my body into overdrive by stroking my balls and the area under the base of my scrotum. This caused me to leak quite a bit! After her pleasure session, I’d use my hands and tongue to help her reach multiple orgasms. It really heightened my own arousal during these moments and gave me seriously painful erections—it was wonderful:)

Following that week, she finally took the keys and locked me up. She does let me out if things become too uncomfortable so I can make adjustments.

I’m currently at the four-week mark without orgasm. It’s hard to go more than thirty minutes without needing to pee because it triggers sexy thoughts about pleasing my girlfriend or watching femdom porn. This is frustrating since I can’t stroke my penis, only rub against the cage, which doesn’t provide much relief. Sometimes just looking at myself causes an erection that turns painful once the cage fills up, leading me to regret it and desperately try to distract myself.

Recently, we discussed activities we’d like to explore. She bought some handcuffs and mentioned she’s willing to try pegging. Ironically, while I still prefer not to have penetrative sex (unless she is penetrating me), I love this feeling of anticipation where I can’t wait to see her and pleasure her again. Most of my thoughts revolve around giving her oral sex, which I adore. Our relationship feels closer than ever; we’re completely open and honest about our feelings, and both are getting what we want.

I’ve just ordered a custom-sized cage from Gerecke because the spiral’s diameter is slightly too large for me, making it easier to slip my penis out (though self-control usually keeps it in place). However, at this four-week stage, even that control has its limits. If anyone is interested in trying the spiral/Twister 2 model, I’ll be selling mine when the new cage arrives.