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I guess I owe you a little backstory. I’m a pretty successful young business owner, running a small building firm and owning my home with a comfortable lifestyle. The one thing missing from the picture has been that crucial significant other.

I’ve had plenty of relationships before but struggled to find someone who could settle down where we really clicked, plus the added bonus if she shared the kink side. Usually, I end up finding an extreme: either girls who love the lifestyle but aren’t looking for a long-term loving relationship, or those great on the romance front but lacking in sex life compatibility. My last split was due to that sexual mismatch.

I’ve always tended to float along rather than actively hunting for specific qualities, just accepting people as they are and getting by—which obviously didn’t work out! This time I’m trying a different approach. After countless recent dates, instead of bringing up the kink element late on, I jokingly introduced it early to test the waters after a few meetings. To my surprise, everyone has been receptive. I suppose this pickier approach is working better than just going for anyone.

I’ve been seeing a girl for a while now who seems perfect so far; we get along great and she’s driven with all the other qualities I want in a partner. A few weeks ago, I jokingly brought up the kink conversation again, and she mentioned it was something she’d tried and enjoyed before.

She came over last night as usual, but today our text exchange turned to joking about kinky things. I joked, ‘Well when I get home I’ll have to look in the kinky box and see if I can find my chastity device that’d make things intresting lol’ Her reply was: ‘Well nothing you’ve said has put me off yet.’ Me: ‘Well I was only joking but if it doesn’t scare you off I’ll have a look.’ Her reply: ‘Nothings near my limit so far lol.’ Me: ‘Well I’ll have a look then you can pick up the key in your way past…Just don’t leave it too long until date number ten lol’ Her reply: ‘Well don t give me ideas lol,’

So as you can imagine, definitely not how I expected that to go. Tonight she is picking up the key. I’ve already thought about safety and agreed that a spare will be kept at my house in the keys safe set for ten days so I guess I’ll just have to see what happens… Definitely intresting