Introductions discussion

Hello! My wife and I began playing around with chastity a few years back, bouncing on and off at first. Then, some time ago she decided to commit more fully to it. Since then I have been locked almost continuously with stretches ranging from two months to over a year.

We use a MatureMetal Watchful Mistress model. It is as secure as any cage device available, and very easy to clean so when I am locked - it stays on. So, it’s a great device but it has its drawbacks. It is not completely secure or stimulation proof. I can’t remove it (and certainly couldn’t put it back on if I did) but it can be mildly uncomfortable sometimes and it creates a bulge that isn’t desirable in skirts and dresses not to mention panties.

So we are looking for a more secure solution that is also less visible under my clothes. A discrete belt.

It was actually that search that lead us here.

We aren’t looking for people to necessarily chat with, I’m not one for chat rooms or live messaging. We aren’t looking for play partners. We hope this is a place to learn and find our solution.