Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I feel like when I wear my cage, I want to announce it to everyone, letting them see that my cock is safely locked away inside. Or maybe not? Everyone includes people at the pub and workmates, but leaves out parents and close family. Who exactly are they talking about? Men? Unlikely unless those men are also caged themselves, though I haven’t encountered another man with a cage in person yet. Women? Likely yes, specifically only those women who attract me sexually or seem like potential dommes. So what is the core drive? Is it craving attention, seeking humiliation, or displaying my submissive nature? Mostly showing that I am submissive, perhaps mixed with some of the other feelings too. But this feeling doesn’t happen when I’m not caged. Does this clarify why so many men chose cages and exposed penises for their avatars? And does it prove conclusively that putting a man in a cage makes him become submissive? A