Difficulties with wearing a device? discussion

Hi there I’d like to discuss your emotions regarding the use of a cage. Have you ever found it odd? For our group, this is quite routine. We all understand what wearing chastity entails, we grasp how it functions, and most of us either wear or desire to wear a device. Yet for those unfamiliar with our fantasies, it might seem unsettling. Wouldn’t the risk of rejection cause you shame? People might view you as deviant or similar:) Have you had any encounters where someone (like parents, friends, etc.) spotted you while wearing the lock? How did you explain it and your reasons for using it? Didn’t you feel embarrassed or ashamed? I realize most of us don’t care much about others’ opinions, but perhaps some have experience (positive or negative) with mishaps involving being locked in a cage:lock: Second question - how do you feel during daily life? What goes through your mind when out and about in a cage? Do you get the sense that everyone knows what’s between your legs, watching and laughing at you?:D How can you acclimate to it, wearing the device without anxiety so it seems like normal behavior?:lock: