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I have always had a strong attraction to chastity and denial. For some people, it is an enjoyable kink; for others, it becomes their way of life. Personally, I viewed it as a fun side interest for quite a while, but since my wife and I started practicing chastity together again, this time feels different. Something inside me has shifted. It doesn’t feel like just a playful game anymore. It feels more significant. The denial of male orgasms resonates deeply with me; it seems to fit perfectly. While the device is still necessary for me, that isn’t the main focus now. What matters most is the denial itself and how it affects my emotions. Being denied by my wife creates an amazing sensation and leaves me incredibly aroused. Recently, these sensations are evolving into submissive feelings, which is a new experience for me. Some might argue this is standard behavior, but since I have never been submissive to her before, it feels quite novel. It is something I am finding difficult to fully grasp. It seems slightly unnatural yet simultaneously boosts my libido greatly. Perhaps that is normal? Maybe punishment fits naturally into an FLR structure? I wonder how I would react if she punished me; perhaps I would laugh the first time! However, I believe she has the capacity for dominance in certain situations. Honestly, this is where I stand: I am creating the right conditions for her to be a dominant wife, even if she isn’t fully aware of it yet. And truly, I don’t do these things merely to trick her. I handle most or all household chores because my schedule permits it, just as I have in the past. Her job demands so much time and mental energy that I feel responsible for managing these tasks to give her peace of mind and more quality time with me and our children. This doesn’t necessarily feel submissive to me; rather, it feels essential. Honestly, I don’t derive pure joy from doing them—it is just something that must be done. I do various things to assist her and constantly look for new ways to help. Recently, I suggested filling up the car with gas during winter since she dislikes that task greatly. A few weeks later, it became a routine expectation. For me, these submissive feelings stem from giving her sexual pleasure without expecting anything in return. She understands my stance on this and has accepted it, perhaps even embracing it wholeheartedly. Although I struggle with sexual frustration like any other man, it feels more natural to the situation. I know that once I orgasm, the dynamic shifts; I will no longer feel as motivated to serve her. Yet, I also know she deserves a clean house and dinner ready when she returns home. Her smile, hug, and heartfelt thanks at the end of the day usually ease my frustrations. I can see she truly appreciates the effort I put in alongside my regular job duties. So yes, it all seems worthwhile in the long run. It feels strange to perform these acts for her in a sexually charged manner while knowing relief is delayed, but that very fact motivates me further. Honestly, I have no idea why this works so well, yet it does. It also feels more natural than our previous dynamic. Without a doubt, sex serves the woman’s pleasure above all else. Don’t misunderstand; I enjoy plenty myself too. But my primary goal is her satisfaction. I love watching her blush when I tell her how much I want to perform oral on her. I say this often. I even send text messages throughout the day just for her. She usually replies that I am being naughty lol. I appreciate her occasional vanilla nature.