Introductions discussion

He is completely obsessed with this and keeps trying to pull me in even though I’ve made it clear multiple times that I’m not keen on it. A few occasions where I went along with him just to make him happy only fueled his desire for more of the same. He wants me to dress him in women’s clothing, and he is even pushing for me to have sex with other men despite knowing my libido is low! All this while claiming it’s “for my benefit,” but who does he think he is fooling!! I wouldn’t have tied the knot if I had realized how obsessed he was with his penis and these kinks, trying to drag me into all of that nonsense! My pastimes are knitting and sewing, not being pegged by him! He’s making me deeply unhappy yet seems indifferent; it’s only chastity and acting “submissive” on his mind. How is he considered submissive when he is basically bullying me into doing what he wants? What does the lock mean to you?