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Hello everyone! I’m a newcomer here and wanted to share a bit about who I am, my path so far, and how things are going with my wife/mistress.
We’ve been together for roughly two decades. A couple of years back, after experimenting with light bondage, we discovered that she enjoys having control in the bedroom, while also realizing I have a submissive nature within me. After some trial and error, along with quite a bit of discussion, we agreed to give wearing a chastity cage a try. We then dove into research to figure out which one would suit us best.
We’ve tested several cages so far:
- CB-6000S
- Metal models from Amazon (watch out if you buy there!)
- Birdlock Mini (our current choice)
It wasn’t always smooth sailing finding a cage that didn’t pinch, chafe, or slip off when I was at my smallest. It really wasn’t until we got the Birdlock Mini that I could keep it on for more than just a day or two. The Mini isn’t the easiest to put on initially, but it fits best, feels most comfortable, and lets me wear it for long stretches. Plus, Birdlock is a wonderful company to deal with. When I somehow broke my Mini, they replaced it quickly and free of charge!
I’ve now been locked away for up to a month (though I do get let out every few days for cleaning). Before some skeptics jump in saying they can escape the Mini, here’s my take: My wife/mistress trusts me to respect her wish that I stay caged. It would be disrespectful of me to try removing it when she isn’t looking. And how does sneaking around behind her back help our relationship?
So if you have any questions about living in a cage or the cuckold lifestyle, I’m always happy to share my thoughts on what you’re experiencing and offer some benefit from my own experience.
Stay safe…stay true! Kevin