Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My wife is a few days past ovulation and usually she has no interest in anything at this point. yesterday I was really feeling the effects of day 5 locked up, I worked from home and was hugging her at every moment. She eventually took off her shirt and put on a lace top. She kept showing me her nipples but would not let me suck them. Then she let me do so over and over and she got worked up. When we went to bed it was not long before I was hugging her and she says “get the vibrator”. It was nice giving her an orgasm with it while I fingered her…but at the same time this was different. yesterday was originally supposed to be my day, and this was one of only times ever she just kind of barked at me to pleasure her with no regard for me. I did tell her it scared me a little and she she said “are you questioning how I want to orgasm???” I quickly apologized (and again this morning). She’s still my vanilla-submissive at hears but definitely some new things coming out. She is finding it hard not to proudly tell her friends that she is a keyholder…after only 3 weeks of play. Wow. I think I’m screwed! Tonight the kids are away and I’m supposed to be out to bathe her and for a reward. Looking forward to it.