Introductions discussion

Hi everyone! The title of this message pretty much sums up the sexual side of my Female Led Marriage. US: I am leader, he is follower, simple. I request, he obeys, simple too. He disobeys or is disrespectful to me, he gets the strap or paddle on his bare bottom until he begs it to stop, I like that. It was not easy to get to this point. It took a lot of strict discipline and a lot of hard sessions of butt-blistering punishment to get my husband to where he is today, but we both agree that he is a much better man for it. The words most often heard in my household are “Yes, Ma’am! / No Ma’am!”. Regarding Chastity, I practice the concept taught by my mentors Jim and Sarah and that is “penis irrelevance”. It is kind of small anyway, so why bother? My satisfaction is usually found in the arms of lovely younger men. I currently have a long-term lover, we meet at least twice per week. My husband is currently in long-term denial and I am considering making “no penetration” a permanent rule. Those are the basics of us. If you would like to know anything else, just ask me politely and I might have an answer.