Chastity: mrsmitty69's Initial Journey Into the World of Male Chastity

Here is the backstory of my journey with male chastity, copied straight from my journal to kick things off. I finally mustered up the nerve to bring up chastity play with my wife yesterday (7/13/15). She didn’t say ‘no’ and promised to think about it. Fingers crossed she gets interested enough that we grab a device this weekend. The timing is perfect because it’s our first chance in years to have the house all to ourselves for a weekend. (We have 4 kids). Just updating you on my last post. Our chat from last night (7/14/15) about chastity went really well! In fact, we decided so much that we ordered a CB3000 with overnight delivery! My wife is super intrigued now… She texted me today asking if I minded her needing to ‘take care of herself’. When I asked what got her in the mood, she said it was partly because of our talk about chastity. So tomorrow the device arrives and we’re going to try it out and see how it fits…sizing everything up. If all goes smoothly, Friday night is date night for us. I’d love to wear the cage to dinner and a movie. Hopefully that isn’t too much to ask of a beginner. More updates coming! Saturday night update (7/18/15)… The chastity arrived on Thursday. We got some time to play with it first. I managed to try it on, though my excitement made the process take longer than usual. She teased me while wearing it for a bit and there was absolutely no pain! On Friday night we went to dinner then headed home to give the CB another go. This time around we didn’t fool around as much; instead, we focused on getting used to wearing it in the house and watched a movie. Saturday morning started with us making love first thing. We grabbed breakfast afterward and decided to try the cage again. I put it on for its “public debut”! First stop was a furniture store followed by our local sex shop. At the shop, my wife wore the key around her neck so everyone could see mine clearly displayed! What an adrenaline rush! When we got home she slipped into some new lingerie she bought along with my set of pouch briefs (I highly recommend them). We fooled around more after that. She sat on my face and I even caught a taste of the leftover cream pie from earlier in the morning! Then she rolled onto her back and I treated her to an amazing cunnilingus session. When I asked if I could be let out, she said ‘not yet’. Afterward we flipped over for about half an hour nap time. Once awake it was nearly time to leave and she apologized for not reciprocating my attention earlier. I told her that’s exactly what I wanted… I loved being denied and frustrated! She grinned at me then gave a big hug, and I think in that moment she realized just how much I craved this. ( 12/20/15) My wife and I use the CB3000. We’ve had it for several months now; my longest stretch wearing it was between 48 to 72 hours. It gets tough going longer because I pass through a metal detector daily at work, so we aren’t ready for plastic locks yet. When the cage is on, my focus shifts toward pleasing her rather than myself. Whenever I do get unlocked, both she and I are eager for PIV. Overall, chastity play has been wonderful for us thus far. Definitely recommend it.