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Hello all! My partner and I started our chastity journey roughly a month back. We went with the new Holy Trainer, and it’s been going well up to now. My main concern is whether the fit is correct. The ring seems to hang a bit loose; it isn’t sitting flat against my pelvis. Plus, occasionally I “turtle” forward slightly, which means I need to use a Q-Tip before peeing, otherwise there’s quite a mess. Are these two issues pretty standard for this device, or do they suggest the ring is too big? I don’t want to pay another $50 for a smaller size unless it’s truly necessary. On the plus side, no chafing so far, though I do use some lube now and then, mostly at night. I’ve had it on most of the time over the last two weeks, which might be relevant. Also, I’m definitely more of a “grower,” so that turtling behavior is likely normal for me. Sorry if this topic has been covered before; my search didn’t turn up much related to this issue. Cheers!