Living Without a Device

My wife and I tested out three chastity devices. They all delivered on their promises, but we ended up favoring the Holy Trainer2 the most. Initially, it really shifted how our relationship worked for us. Eventually though, daily life caught up with that change. Issues like cleaning routines, nocturnal erections, and her desire to have me inside during passionate moments only to pause so I could remove the cage got in the way of things. In the end, we decided to stop using devices entirely. They aren’t bad equipment; they just weren’t a good fit for us personally. Please understand that this doesn’t mean we think devices are wrong for everyone else—it’s simply what worked best for our specific situation.

That said, masturbation and ejaculation still haven’t returned to my routine. We’re planning to open up discussions with another couple who don’t use cages, yet the husband remains chaste. It might be tricky to navigate, but given how much sexual activity I’ve had over the past two months, it feels like a waste not to hold out for that one orgasm.

If anyone reading this also practices chastity and is open to chatting with us, please send me a message. My wife has access to my account here as well, so there are no secrets between us. We’d love to exchange thoughts on methods, tips, and experiences in a respectful manner—going beyond just sexual fantasy talk. Queen1 especially hopes to hear from other women.

Looking forward to connecting with you all. Still enduring many days of chastity, NewKnight and Queen1