Our Path Starts Here

As we are just starting out on our journey playing with chastity devices I have many questions which I will be asking as we grow and develop. A short history about us to help under stand where we are and what we are coming from. We are a long time committed mature couple living a Master (M) / slave (f) relationship 24/7, both in our early 60’s. As part of keeping our relationship committed we sit down as a couple not as M/s and discuss everything about our relationship. This we do at least twice a year some times more often because we believe it is important to our relationship that we have these open and frank discussions. It has been surprising the number of times that one of us has established one of these discussions only to find that the other was thinking along the same lines. Resulting from one of those discussions we have started to explore chastity devices and penis plugs. Our reasoning would not be considered conventional. We are not looking for the chastity side of the devices. I find I am very interested in the look of the devices together with the thought of wearing one for periods of time. In short adding yet another string to our bow. I have been doing heaps of research on the subject, devices, peoples experience etc. From that research I have concluded that their is fare more utter rubbish out their as against useful worthwhile information. However I have found some info which I would recommend any new person read as a useful guide. The first I would strongly recommend is ” Getting a Good Fit” by Caged Lion. His advice sorted out a minor problem with in the first 3 days. He advised wearing the cock ring full time for a number of days to confirm the ring size is the correct size for you. As I have a number of rings I was able to start wearing a 44mm ring full time. Although the ring was comfortable etc. I did note that my rocks have increased slightly in size and developed that heavy feeling we all experienced as teenagers after heavy sessions with our then girlfriend but not getting past first base. On day three I changed to a 45mm ring, just 1 mm larger. It is chalk and cheese, the difference that 1mm has made. The ring only comes off every 2nd day for the five minutes to shave then I put it straight back on. My balls are still the slightly increased size but the heavy feeling is totally disappeared. I have also noted that my penis has never returned to turtle look since I have had the ring on. It remains around the 1/4 to 1/2 erect size. But that could just be a very active mind playing tricks with me. Now for my first couple of questions. Have people noted a slight increase in the size of their ball once they start wearing their device full time. Also would they recommend the cock ring be the single ring or the double ring. My thoughts are that the double ring would be the most suitable ring for the cock ring of the device. My reasoning being that the double ring is twice the width giving less movement and more support. From our research we have established that we will be getting a custom made device of the open cage / rings type. That should do for my first post