Does Humiliation Lose Its Sting Over Time?

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Cross dressing isn’t really my thing. Honestly, most of what I wear comes from men’s outdoor sports shops, usually in black or very dark hues. I prefer clothes without writing or logos on them. For the majority of my adult life, brown was simply not an option for me.

My wife knows this well. She swapped out all of my underwear for panties and bras. At first it felt pretty humiliating to wear those items around the house, but once I got used to it, she started having me wear them in public too.

Something interesting happened along the way; because I became so accustomed to wearing that gear, I stopped feeling humiliated by them. My wife noticed that I no longer hesitated or even brought up my female clothing anymore and asked if they had lost their power to embarrass me. I told her honestly what was happening, so she suggested I go back to my own underwear for a while. After some time passes, she plans to have me wear panties and a bra only occasionally again, just so the humiliation returns. Maybe it will work out that way, or maybe not. We’ll see.

How about you all? Do you find that acts of humiliation stop feeling humiliating if performed too often or as part of your routine? I used to feel humiliated being naked among dressed women, but no longer. It doesn’t bother me at all when my wife tells her friends she punishes me and that I obey whatever she says. I adapt to things, and eventually they lose their sting.

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