My Arrangement With My Wife And Still Masturbating HELP!

I met my wife at age 20 and I’m now 38, meaning we’ve shared a solid relationship for quite some time. Even during our early dating days, we had this game called BJToday? She wasn’t particularly fond of giving blowjobs but would deliver one with plenty of energy if she felt her family members praised me in any way. For instance, if I mowed her mom’s lawn and my wife heard about how nice that was from her mother, I’d earn myself a quality blowjob.

Recently, we decided to experiment with chastity. When I brought it up, she really liked the concept. It appears my libido is stronger than hers; while she enjoys intercourse roughly twice weekly, I find myself masturbating multiple times daily—five times isn’t unusual for me. She didn’t mind that I had this outlet but believes (and I agree) that without it, I’d be more affectionate and romantic, which would likely lead to her initiating sex more often.

So we jumped into the practice of chastity. After a few initial hiccups, things are going smoothly now. We stick to having sex at least twice a week and brought back the BJToday rule, which is quite enjoyable since it’s getting harder and harder for me to snag a compliment from an in-law directed at my wife. It adds an erotic touch knowing her sister could be the one triggering my release.

However, I’ve hit a snag with masturbating while locked up. I’ve tested various devices like the CB6000, CB6000S, Jailbird, and a short Chinese knock-off cage (hoping it would prevent me from cumming if it were too tight), but in every case, I manage to find a way around them. Honestly, I can’t help myself; just tapping the device for about 45 minutes allows me to reach climax. Any suggestions on how to curb this or overcome it? Has anyone else faced similar issues and found solutions?

Thanks!