Inquiries from an Entrant to Chastity

Hi there,

I’m relatively new to the world of chastity, though I’ve been watching from the sidelines for some time. I managed to persuade my partner to try it with me, but I have a few general questions and figured asking an experienced group would be best.

I plan on getting a frenulum piercing soon—both because it’s easier to pierce and due to my own concerns—and I’m looking for a device that fits our unique (or perhaps just standard) needs. My partner and I lead fairly active lives, so we need something lightweight and not too bulky to avoid issues during daily activities like jogging or walking.

It should allow me an erection (which my partner enjoys; she likes teasing and keeping me in that state as long as possible), while preventing me from having it too easy to relieve myself. A ring on top would be a nice bonus, though not essential. I’d prefer something with internal locking—again for the active lifestyle—to avoid clanking locks distracting us during entertainment—and within a reasonable price range. We aren’t cheapskates regarding our ahem family jewels, but we want to be mindful of costs.

After that, I’m unsure what else to consider. My other quick questions are: at what gauge should the frenulum piercing be? Any sage advice is welcome; this is mostly a scouting and exploration phase until we settle all details.

I found a device that seems to match much of our interest here ( minus the enclosure marks, though I can’t trace its origin. I believe it belongs to one of the two websites linked below. Thank you for any help y’all can give us and have a pleasant chaste day.

Sincerely, John Lock … kyconsumer