Chastity device discussions and reviews discussion

Hi everyone, It’s late and I want to sleep, but there’s an issue… I’ve written before about the harm my current device has caused my cock and other equipment. The other day Mistress Deborah and I talked about a PA piercing - it feels like a big step, but we think we could find a device that is secure yet keeps minimal metal against my shaft to reduce abrasions. However, after two days of searching through the forums and online resources, nothing really stands out as the perfect solution. The PA500 has some bad reviews I’ve read - I am uncircumcised and don’t really want to go under the knife at 43 years old! The full metal belt didn’t help matters; it caused damage. Reading others’ experiences suggests friction is the culprit, so lubrication might be key, but then we’d have to remove it daily - which isn’t ideal. Full metal belts feel overpriced frankly speaking by manufacturers, which puts me off completely… and our budget or inclination just aren’t there… This brings me around to steelworkx or maturemetal. Both look interesting and perhaps the mistress on those sites is approachable - but I tend to shrink below normal size so I don’t want to slip out; it feels like that would likely happen, as it has before where I ended up with a chunk of metal dangling from my waist… So I’m stuck - truly stuck! And now Mistress Deborah tonight said she is tired of the search - the money we’ve wasted and not being able to find what she believes will work for me - and maybe we should let it rest for a while - which goes against our original goal! Please help with suggestions or anything you have, please! A desperate philfred!