Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I recently got the points of intrigue ordered after I pulled out and couldn’t get back in, forcing me to ask for release (which didn’t sit well with her). The points work nicely overall, but when they took the device off after two days, my penis had significant swelling. My skin was fine, but it’s clear that trying to erect while locked is what caused it.

It looks pretty bad and I wanted to see if anyone else noticed this issue with the points of intrigue since they seem to have stopped selling them (is that why?).

I was thinking about switching to KSD-G3 inserts, but I’ve heard those can also lead to skin damage. I’m curious as to why the swelling occurs specifically when using the points, rather than less so without the device.

I tried moving down a ring size, which secures things better, but after about eight hours I get leakage issues after peeing (feels like it’s too tight around the ring), forcing me back up a size.

Appreciate any advice and help you can offer. Hope everyone is doing well.