Female led relationships discussion

If a man is happy with his daily masturbation and doesn’t really need your presence, isn’t chastity (even if he suggested it) just a way to “force” him to worship you while possibly tricking yourself? If he shows no interest when unlocked, isn’t his motivation purely his own orgasm rather than you? I struggle to feel like a goddess knowing that his worship stems from his release, not necessarily me or my pleasure. I might be walking on thin ice here, but I need to voice these thoughts. Could it be that I overthink things and should just let go? Maybe stop analyzing men so much, get my act together, and simply enjoy?