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Back when I first started lurking here, my wife and I mostly kept chastity play to a day at a time—just something to add some spice to our bedroom routine. Longer lockups sounded interesting, but that initial hesitation about losing access to my manhood always held me back from fully committing. Then one night, while I was servicing her with the cage on, she teased keeping it locked overnight (she eventually let me out and we had wonderful sex). After that happened, we talked more about longer lockups; she said she would enjoy it and it matched a fantasy of mine. We agreed our target should be seven days. So the training started. Currently, my longest period has been around 50 hours, which was right before I stopped lurking and introduced myself here.

Over the last few weeks, some health matters paused both CB use and longer lockups. With those issues fading away, we discussed this again last night. Two main points came up: first, our mutual wish for me to stay locked; second, our plan to start trying for another baby starting this month.

Her desire for a new child initially made her lean toward abandoning the chastity routine until she got pregnant. I expected that concern and was ready to suggest doing lockups during specific times of the month so we could keep moving forward with family plans. But she surprised me in our chat. She tracks fertility closely and is very eager to conceive this next time. Her idea is for me to stay locked for several days before her fertile window each month, preventing release and allowing my load to build up until the timing is right. She has clearly thought it through and done some research; she genuinely believes our chastity play might actually help us have another child.

The only thing I worry about is what happens once she gets pregnant. She mentioned wanting to see how I handle staying locked for as long as a month while expecting. That really pushes beyond our original seven-day goal.