Full Belts discussion

Hello everyone,

I haven’t owned chastity devices for very long, but in recent months I purchased both an Exobelt V-1 and an Exobelt Extreme. After experimenting with these two plastic models, my fiancée and I have decided they likely won’t suit me.

The issue is that I am quite small when flaccid. When fully erect, I measure around 5 to 6 inches, but in a relaxed state, I am very petite and only stretch out about 1 or 2 inches initially. With the V-1, this means I frequently slide up and out of the tube, which makes consistent wear difficult especially when urinating (and besides, the V-1 is rather bulky and cumbersome to move around in). With the Extreme model, my small size causes me to ride up into the trap quickly after installation. From there, just a tug or two on the skin (I am uncircumcised) allows me to slip out easily even with the tightest setup possible.

I don’t want to keep throwing money at plastic “trap” style devices if my anatomy isn’t compatible. Therefore, despite having already spent some unnecessary funds, I am turning towards a full metal belt. I have several questions for those more knowledgeable than me and would value any advice. I’ve done my homework, so please forgive any redundancy; I just want to be absolutely certain before investing this amount of money that I’m making the right choice.

• Are there other devices suitable for my small frame, or will I just waste more cash?

• When it comes to genuine security and comfort, should I choose Neosteel or Tollyboy? I prefer the look of the “Shemale” style Neosteel… but aesthetics are secondary to function. Whichever works best fits me is the winner.

• I like the concept of a rear strap instead of thong-style support… but do leg straps show more? Also, Neosteal appears to be unique in having an opening for #2 relief. That seems like a huge benefit. It feels messy dealing with cleaning the Tollyboy thong style which lacks that hole. What’s the best path here? I’ve researched both online and am a bit confused by the “cord” versus “strap” terminology and what each actually denotes. Also, I couldn’t locate an image showing the Tollyboy “dropped” waistband compared to the standard raised band. Additionally, I really want to keep rear access open for play if possible.

• How difficult is hygiene maintenance compared to a tube-style plastic device?

• Are these metal belts truly secure once fitted correctly? Nothing would be worse than spending $600 or $700 on a custom belt only to have it fail expectations.

• Visibility. Can full belts remain fairly undetectable, and which design hides better?

• Someone mentioned ‘defeating’ a certain belt with a vibrator. I wasn’t sure exactly what that entailed. Does rear play defeat it, or how precisely does the belt get defeated? This seemed important to understand.

• Any other advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you all, Yours in (hopeful) Chastity