Female led relationships discussion

I’m confident it’s only natural, but as we’ve grown and changed, her expectations and sympathy have shifted too. Last night she asked for a foot rub. I hesitated a bit before finally doing it. She commented, “you don’t seem very excited; probably because you just got locked up and won’t be freed anytime soon.” It struck me as funny that to her, five days feels like “just locked up”. I recall when we began, I pictured the device being off half the time. Back then, she allowed nightly releases for playtime and worried about my skin, applying vitamin E oil each evening. Now, after just five days of locking, the device stays on as a default state; it’s only taken out briefly every month or two for some fun. Our toy box is starting to compete with Adam and Eve catalogs. We own 7, 8, and 10 inch dildos… plus a few monsters I accidentally bought that probably shouldn’t be inserted into anyone lol! There’s a strong doxi wand, harnesses suited for her cock choices, and some cock sleeve extenders designed for me. We also possess paddles, straps, rope, blindfolds, and gag options. One observation: our most-used items focus on solutions that keep her satisfied without needing me unlocked. Even the strapon is really only practical when I’m caged with it tucked away. Just rambling about being “just locked” hehe