Introductions discussion

Hi there, I’m not entirely sure where to begin, so I’ll just dive straight in. I am definitely a beginner here. It all began with guilt—specifically the guilt of masturbation. I felt like I was being unfaithful to my wife, whom I love deeply. My urges were uncontrollable. Eventually, it became too much for me. While browsing online, I stumbled upon these chastity cages. The logic clicked into place; it seemed clear that I needed to wear one. So, I ordered one from the internet. It arrived by mail last week. When I tried it on, it felt quite comfortable. But then I thought: what’s next? Four days ago, I decided to come clean with my wife about everything. First, I locked the device in place. After dinner, my wife and I stepped out onto the back porch for a cigarette. My nerves were high. I reached into my pocket, pulled out the keys, and slid them over to her. She picked them up and asked what they opened. I told her I had something important to share and asked her to listen first. I confessed everything, and she looked hurt. She wondered if it was her fault or if she wasn’t attractive enough. I quickly assured her that the problem lay with me alone; I was addicted to masturbation. THEN, I presented my solution: this is where the keys come in. I explained that I was wearing a chastity device on my penis and that she held the power over it via those keys, free to do as she pleased. What happened next genuinely surprised me. She pocketed the keys without hesitation. We continued discussing my issue and the benefits of being locked up. She agreed with my decision, which brought me great relief. Then, she wanted a closer look. She actually grabbed the device and gave it a tug, presumably to check if it was truly secure. It has now been four days, and she mentioned that this is kind of cool and suits me well. She has hidden the keys from view. I realize now she is serious about keeping me locked up. It’s amusing because once I handed over those keys, I felt a massive wave of relief mixed with anxiety. I surrendered my choice to my wife. I haven’t asked her yet if she plans to unlock me or not, but I think I already know the answer. Did I make the right call by starting this journey?