Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

It appears most men took charge of their own journey into chastity and usually brought in their partners to back them up along the way … My query is directed at women who have locked males on their own accord, asking you to share how you managed it (particularly with men who were previously unfamiliar with chastity or its advantages). I am preparing a novella about a matchmaker who presents men to chastity and then offers them up to women as “finished” males. There will be some “kink,” but the goal of my work is to help vanilla women view chastity in a fresh (non-kinky) light that hopefully encourages them to adopt it to deepen intimacy within their own relationships. Your input will assist in making this process feel realistic and attainable. By the way - my project stems from Ms.Amandas vision to bring male chastity into the mainstream, and I will dedicate it to her. Please honor the spirit of this sincere endeavor with real-life experiences from KEYHOLDERS ONLY please.