Introductions discussion

We wanted to inject some excitement into our quarter-century marriage, and after reading Fifty Shades of Grey, I decided to take the leap. I proposed we flip the script by having my wife control my chastity.

For roughly two years, we experimented with dice rolls and four different devices, but I haven’t really worn them for long stretches and removed them fairly often. We used the dice to determine how long the device stayed on or which one to choose. This meant that a ‘6’ for a day out appeared quite regularly, allowing me to swap cages most days, keeping things light.

So far this year, I’ve been more out than in, but something felt missing…

With 103 days left until our September anniversary, I suggested we step up the intensity. I committed to being locked for 103 consecutive days with only a 72-hour allowance for free time (the extra three days contribute to this total). It might sound intense because I am waxed; that consumes four hours since the therapist cannot perform waxing while I’m in the cage. I also love long-distance cycling, and cages aren’t ideal for it, though I’ve been surprised by my ability to handle shorter rides. Since every hour matters, any used time is deducted at the last minute before putting the device back on.

To add more constraints, there are controls regarding underwear use, a weekly orgasm goal that I must surrender to my wife, and some caning involved. It should be enjoyable.

I’m starting another thread as a blog so you can follow along.