Introductions discussion

First I’m unsure about where to place this post since I haven’t fully explored and figured out terms like “foyer” or “powder room,” so if it’s in the wrong spot, please forgive me. I am Wife, best friend, lover, and key holder to ItsNvrEnuf (he has been here for quite a while). He had a P.A. done back in March 2014. We live part-time “spicy” with an ever-growing chaotic yet beautiful vanilla life! TIME… it is always slipping away, just like oxygen—so essential to our marriage—that we notice the deprivation and feel its effect; it’s a struggle.

It isn’t all doom and gloom by any means! We are very happy, but time is scarce. That is why I am here, where you my online confidants will encourage, assist, and advise me.

With our limited time, strenuous jobs (husband), an ill-fitting device, schedules like two ships passing in the night, I need advice on how to keep chastity “alive.” It’s imperative that it be interim or period play—I don’t mean menses—permanent yet temporary (must be removed due to his job and replaced during time off work) rather than 24/7. I can explain further if needed.

Any advice or tid-bits would be helpful. This is why I am here, my dear chaste friends and key holders: for support and answers regarding real-life marriage chastity… Thank you in advance for your kind outreach. A few key points: He wants to stay locked (lock). I want to lock him. I struggle with the proper “mind” play and psychological tools needed to keep it going while he is locked. Hey, it’s hard to remember whispering or texting those key “things” when you only see each other every other week basically, and even then there are little humans (kiddos) within earshot. We are married and live together but work opposite shifts, seeing each other about every five days for half-days, with four full days a month together.

It’s life; I fail at this and let my husband down, so I need advice from married couples who make it work amidst household chaos. Thanks friends.