Introductions discussion

Hello everyone - I am new here and just began wearing a chastity device because my wife was worried about my fidelity (even though it wasn’t really needed). I use the lock whenever I step out of the house and take it off when I head to bed at night. It has never truly been about denial, but I would like that to change. My wife enjoys having me inside her, although she mostly climaxes from oral stimulation. Also, I don’t believe she is “selfish” enough to have numerous orgasms without my cumming as well.

Do you have any suggestions on how to shift the dynamic a bit so it becomes about her pleasure just as much as mine? I currently own a CB3000, CB6000, Birdlocked Maxi and Bon4 Plus.