Introductions discussion

I spent yesterday spoiling my wife and we had intercourse at night, with her reaching an orgasm while I remained locked up throughout. Honestly, since I just climaxed four days ago, I wasn’t anticipating much of anything. This morning I prepared breakfast for her followed by a morning massage. Soon after, she asked me to join her in bed so I could lick her butt, which is one of my absolute favorite things. Then she instructed me to take off my CB6000s because she wants to experience an orgasm while holding onto my penis. This is standard routine with her, so it didn’t bother me at all.

So away went the device and she began teasingly playing with my member. She invited me to touch her too but then, after a few minutes, signaled for me to stop because she wanted to use her vibrator. I have allowed her exclusive use of it since I told her that I didn’t mind as long as she gets off in whichever way suits her best most effectively. She had a powerful climax while starting to jerk my penis quite vigorously as I gently caressed her back. Afterward, she ordered me to lock up and leave the room.

Later on, while I was massaging her feet, she mentioned that I missed my chance to cum this morning. I explained that I didn’t realize she wanted it because I was focused entirely on her pleasure rather than mine, so I wasn’t really paying close attention to what sensations were being applied to me. We don’t have a fixed duration for our chastity lifestyle but I know the current period will be under a month since I get very irritable after that point and threats of extended lock-up don’t really sway my behavior much anymore. It’s actually harder on her as she has to endure me even longer. She can bring me to climax either two days post-previous or three weeks later depending on the situation. Usually, there is no warning given which makes it a surprise (pun definitely intended).:)

The issue with not knowing isn’t just wasting $25 on Viagra pills while trying to guess correctly; the real problem is that I suppress my sexual urges so much it becomes harder for her to get me erect again (pun intended).:) It made me curious what most of you do. Do partners tell you ahead of time that an orgasm is possible, or does it catch you completely off guard?