Introductions discussion

To be honest, not much stands out enough to warrant a post, but I wanted to say hello and share some background on what led me here.

My sex life has been pretty low-key since marrying my wife. She doesn’t know anything about BDSM at all. For quite a while now, I’ve been watching the web, hoping to become a locked-up loser for her sake. Since I’m fairly large (a grower) and she is very petite (Japanese), we have mostly avoided sex because it causes her pain. So far, daily masturbation has taken over completely in place of enjoying intimacy with her.

We get along wonderfully day-to-day, but the lack of sexual connection worries us both, and we want to break this habit to boost our relationship. About a month ago, I finally gathered up my courage to ask if she had ever heard of chastity and would be open to trying it. The main goals are to stop me from jerking off on my own and to make me behave better for her, only reaching an orgasm when she permits it. She hadn’t heard of the concept before but wanted to improve our sex life, so she agreed to give it a go.

I bought an inexpensive knockoff CB6000 online, wore it briefly to find a comfortable fit, then locked myself up and asked her to keep the keys. I told her only let me out if I had been perfectly good enough to deserve an orgasm reward. Since day one, I have worked hard to impress her and take over all household duties. I handle laundry, ironing, cleaning, dishes, and making the bed. I stopped arguing entirely, bought her new dresses and lingerie, and took her out for dinner twice in just a month. This has made her incredibly happy, which makes me happier too!

I stayed locked for 10 consecutive days before being allowed to masturbate freely for one week. That knockoff CB6000 was painful and hard to keep clean. I ended up wearing a size larger than necessary hoping it would be more comfortable, but it wasn’t; it even came loose while running. So, I decided to order a pink Holy Trainer 2, which has been perfect. It is tight yet comfy, and I can barely stimulate my cock at all (there is no room for movement inside). My penis feels wrapped in second-skin thick plastic.

I am now locked for 13 straight days, constantly dreaming about my wife. I have become very attentive and caring, practically giving her whatever she asks. She likes it so much that yesterday, lying in bed, she whispered to me for the first time: “I’m never letting you out of that cage.” Then she giggled and went back to sleep. I couldn’t be happier with how things are going.

Since we are both new to chastity, I hope to improve by reading and participating here on this forum, as well as helping my wife dominate me into the weak, sex-hungry servant that suits her best.

Thanks for reading and keeping such a great community alive!