Introductions discussion

It’s been a while since I last posted, so I’m feeling quite out of the loop. That said, I thought it was time to introduce myself again.

I originally stepped away for several reasons.

Time Management Balancing full-time work, family duties, and returning to school…it definitely took its toll on me. My preferred style of chastity is somewhat ritualistic, so finding the quiet moments needed for subspace became nearly impossible. Consequently, my wife lost interest due to sheer exhaustion, and eventually, I ran out of energy too. We returned to a more standard lifestyle. It’s comfortable enough, but I’ve realized I’m actually more attached to chastity than I first estimated…My plan is to steal some brief moments now and then to indulge in my favorite fetish, simply to keep my sanity intact.

Self-Motivation Strategies This has (and still is) definitely my weak spot. My fantasies about chastity usually involve other people, so without my wife nearby, finding that drive was hard. I see a few ways forward with this issue, but I welcome your input: a) Using an online timer. Timers have helped my work efficiency and study habits, though my main worry is that since I’m not remotely technosexual, losing interest in the device itself could happen. b) Watching motivation videos or reading captions/blogs—essentially bragging rights for those doing this. The only catch here is that porn loses its effect quickly, especially when it’s poorly written. c) Figuring out how to fit kink into an already packed schedule and finding a fresh angle to draw my wife back in. I don’t have the answer yet, but I’m confident we can come up with something new. Any ideas? d) Focusing purely on the physical sensation of chastity and improved release, while dropping some of those psycho-sexual aspects that first attracted me (though giving those up feels a bit like quitting). e) Finding friends to encourage longer periods between lock removals—obviously tricky, but if boundaries aren’t clear, it’s easy to cause trouble or hurt feelings.

About Me I’m awkward, quiet, and introverted. I constantly put my foot in my mouth…consider that a fair warning. I take a liberal definition of chastity, meaning no orgasm or discharge, for practical reasons: mainly because the nature of my job makes full-time lock-up a bit unusual, so I prefer flexibility. I only wear it at home or when out in public (excluding work hours), though it’s been some time since I actually did.

I’m trying to be more dedicated to chastity, as my sexuality essentially hinges on it; therefore, it counts officially as a fetish now. After school finishes, I hope to land a job that accommodates this better so I can live full-time with it, but for now, life is what it is. I enjoy art and history.

That’s all I have to say for now.