Has your outlook on male chastity evolved?

I’m mostly directing this to those with experience in crossdressing. Have your perspectives on male chastity, your feelings about wearing the device and how you two weave it into your partnership shifted recently compared to when you first began? For me initially, it consumed everything. I struggled not to constantly chatter with my wife about it nonstop. It’s been a solid journey with its highs and lows, but now feels much more routine. I better grasp her viewpoint on the device and how she wishes to blend it into our dynamic. Locking up by myself no longer triggers arousal as easily, yet I still get turned on when my spouse actively participates in the experience. I understand what she expects regarding locking and unlocking me without nagging her as much as before. Occasionally I consider pausing male chastity, though I remain fond of it, even if our FLR holds a special place. What about your experiences?