Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Someone else noted that he wasn’t really a slave because being a slave meant having no choice, whereas he was more of a submissive. This made me wonder… what exactly are you? What does it signify to you personally? How shapes your identity? And how do you define the role? Clearly my pet is called just “pet”. His job is to be loyal and friendly, acting as my companion. He’s spoiled and pampered, which fits the label of “pet” perfectly. Personally, I’d prefer him to be a slave!!!! LOL He’s on the verge of becoming one. I decide most things about his activities and how they’re done, but he hasn’t quite reached that level of obedience yet. So hopefully once we settle our dynamic, he’ll get “promoted”. So are you a slave, submissive, sissy maid, sissy slut, pet, or partner? I usually don’t like labels much, but I thought this topic might be an interesting one to explore.