Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Amazingly it’s been a year since I last posted and four years have passed since my wife and I started getting into chastity and orgasm denial. Things have recently become more interesting. I’ve not been allowed an orgasm or unlocked in 2010, and my wife seems to be getting stricter. She complained earlier this week when I ejaculated some precum after a lot of teasing. No unauthorized squirts are allowed, let alone an orgasm. Yesterday she was in a bit of a huff; when I asked about it, she said that I hadn’t done a good job with oral sex in the morning and she expected better performance at night. Later, while we were in bed, she told me to get the large silicone dildo out and start warming it up because it would be needed along with my tongue. She certainly enjoyed herself, then fell asleep with her hand over my cock cage. It’s difficult when real life interrupts, kids coming and going, etc. She used to unlock me when the kids were around, but now she just expects me to be totally discreet. If I’m ignored for a few weeks, that’s tough luck! So in our case — starting from a very vanilla point — patience has definitely been the best policy.