Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I was reflecting lately on the origins of this journey and I’d like to know how many folks here started out relying on their word? We operated under that trust until my KH felt sure enough in me that I could go some time without releasing and still be faithful. When we transitioned into enforced chastity and located a suitable cage, she mentioned that the very first night I slept well with it locked on, she realized I’d likely become a regular wearer. Ultimately, before agreeing to put me in one, my KH wanted assurance that I was truly committed to giving up orgasms. Earning the device meant demonstrating to her that I could handle being a chaste husband properly. Did most of you here also end up earning your cage?