Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My wife won't let me masturbate now. Period. So, unless She decides to have sex with me, I'm not going out for someone else, and I'm definitely not jerking off myself, then what reason is there for me to be unlocked? I can no longer get erections because they just cause trouble.

> gingers_sub said: > So I've returned to chastity after a four-year hiatus. > > Our kinky sex life before and during that break was great. > > She has found sexual satisfaction with other men, rarely me unless it's oral. > > Her Bull/Lover of five years recently ended things between them. > > It seems she is losing her interest in sex overall, even my oral efforts. > > For a long time now, she hasn't cared for my smallish penis that tends to come early, but we've remained close in other respects. > > I should mention that we are both 51 years old. > > I worry that with her declining libido this might be the "lock and forget" scenario I fear. > > It's not entirely clear how to interpret it. > > On one side, I've always thought her sexual gratification is what counts, not mine. My satisfaction comes from hers rather than my own. Although I enjoy a good jerk-off just as much as anyone else, > > So if she no longer wants sex maybe I should just wither in my cage and let the remaining years pass while I pleasure myself by hand. > > On one side I don't want to lose those years if her interest has faded, but on the other side, giving up those same years as a sacrifice to my belief that mine still doesn't matter is actually quite arousing. > > Any thoughts? > > Click to expand... My wife's libido is also dropping. So we had a serious talk about it because my drive remains very strong at 62. After our conversation, she told me not to worry, that I am her man and won't be going anywhere. That I would still get milked and have orgasms because no other woman will ever touch me. It's nice being in chastity but even better when you are loved while locked.