Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

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Hi there, I’m curious about your thoughts on being locked in chastity while dealing with family members like parents, siblings, or even children. For me, it feels quite daunting and embarrassing, so I haven’t really been in that position yet. The closest experience was a phone call with my dad during one of my stints; surprisingly, it wasn't as bad as expected.

Generally, I'm still getting the hang of chastity. I've dreamed about it for ages but only tried it once with my girlfriend. It was thrilling because it followed an 11-day dry spell (we lived apart while studying). To cut a long story short, when we finally met at her parents' place, I arrived already wearing my cage under my trousers. She suggested keeping it on until morning so we could have sex after her folks left town. That terrified me since I'd be around close family with high sexual tension and locked up tight. So I talked her out of the idea, though now I wonder if that was wise.

How can I get past this feeling? What has your experience been?

member_fe32e42b1c · Answer

I'm fine around family. With small children who want to play and climb on me, though, I worry they might feel something underneath and start asking questions. But aside from that specific situation with little ones, it's no issue for me.

member_ae589a176c · Answer

Honestly, we barely give it a second thought! Just Mrs Chaste and I know the truth. We don't want to share this secret with them either! Our kids assume we're too old for "sex" anymore! Oh, if they only knew... They'd be shocked, maybe even disgusted! So we keep our counsel.

member_7fb2dd5c8a · Answer

If your cage isn't obvious under your clothes, why should anyone other than your key holder know? Personally, I prefer not to involve others. Your key holder might have different plans, but that's a separate topic.

member_3c534b639c · Answer

I don't have kids myself, but I'm very mindful around my nephews and niece.

When I get unlocked, I often don't really have a choice because my wife insists on taking me to family events while still locked. After all, "always locked" means truly Always Locked. Initially, I was nervous the first few times, but eventually, it became second nature. The turning point for me was visiting and staying at my parents' small condo last Christmas. We slept on the sofa bed in the living room; privacy wasn't perfect but manageable. Having been locked for a couple of weeks beforehand helped. I felt cautious yet managed those days without any issues or people noticing.

These days, sometimes it crosses my mind, but no one has said anything or acted differently over two-plus years of locking, so I'm past that stage. I handle the frustration quietly and peacefully.

Best wishes!

member_00ae741ccc · Answer

My chastity journey began while living with my parents as our relationship went long-distance. At first, I was quite paranoid that someone might spot it. Afterward, however, it hardly matters; it just becomes another invisible detail of life.

member_7e2cea7bff · Answer

No problems here. Just as my naked member isn't an issue around them, neither is the caged one now. The only real change since getting locked up is sitting down to pee.

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