Introductions discussion

Hi there. I just joined the group. What’s the best way to get started? I identify as a submissive and a cuck, with my bisexual side still emerging. I’m an owned sissy under a Black Dom, married to a woman who is unaware of this whole world. I suspect these traits have been buried deep since I was about twelve years old. My sexual life as a man has felt like a struggle, and as the years go by, my ability to mask emotional weaknesses fades. Naturally, all those hidden parts rise to the surface, especially once a Dom pierced through my defenses and made me face them head-on. That experience changed everything.

I’ve experimented with chastity devices over the years, but it’s only in the past three or four that I took it seriously. Living under my Dom’s roof while wearing his cage has clarified our dynamic and boosted my feminine evolution. My craving for Black cock now drives most of what I do, even though I don’t really have a romantic attraction to men; it feels more about power dynamics. The humiliation I once dreaded when trying to act like a man is now the core of my excitement as a sissy. Wearing the cage feminizes me inside and out. It focuses my emotions inwardly, helping me see myself as female in spirit while viewing my Dom as a true male authority. This frees me to be naturally submissive—a cock-hungry sissy—relieving the pressure I felt trying to perform masculinity.

I know cages affect people differently, but here is how they work for me. I own several metal and plastic models, each offering unique sensations. The rigid ones keep me aware of my submission and control, while my softer silicone versions completely erase any feeling of maleness by blending into your body and directing all sensation inwardly. I still recall those moments when my hand instinctively reaches down to touch the device during stimulation from images or tales, only to be surprised by the softness where a penis usually sits. In that instant, it feels like you’ve lost your cock entirely, replaced by gentle skin—a deeply erotic and intense sensation. Once reality sets in, your mind recognizes the structure as a clit, providing a lovely contrast to the distinct feeling of metal.

That’s my current situation: lots left to discover and experience, but with a strong desire that I had given myself over to these needs much sooner than I did. stephie