Introductions discussion

Hello everyone, I first discovered chastity via some captioned pics on social media sites and it got me curious, very curious! I bought a couple of cages but unfortunately I don’t get to wear them as often as I’d like too. When I get the opportunity to lock myself up it’ll only be for anything between 1 & 8 hours. I can’t be locked as my wife isn’t into kinky things. However I have quite a kinky side to me. My biggest fetish are stilettos, and I enjoy female domination and BDSM. I love crossdressers, sissies & shemales and lately I have been having fantasies about forced bi situations. I like wearing women’s underwear & hosiery when I get the chance too. I have a very submissive side, although anyone who knows me wouldn’t think that. When I am locked the feeling I get is like no other. Hopefully I can get to chat with like minded people now & again?