Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’ve been waiting patiently to get my wife into the device. We had fun with it, but now is her fertile window (which means I need to be aggressive), combined with some anxiety and work-related emotions she’s feeling. I planned to wait at least another week. Today was rough for her at the office. After taking our kids to dinner, they were uncooperative getting ready for a movie at home, which put me in a bad mood. I was harsh on them and selfish. Eventually, I gave up and set them up with a film, then went back to check on my wife.

She sat on the couch and said… “I want you to go lock yourself up.” My reaction? What? Why? (Mostly because she’s been sexually checked out for the last day or two, showing no interest in this at all)… She replied, “I didn’t like how you handled the kids just now” (which is true; I have asked her for similar accountability from me). I tested her a few times with comments like “this is stupid” and “this isn’t necessary,” but she held firm. For the good of this thriving dynamic, whenever she asks, I may test her slightly, but I will lock up and present her with the key.

She kept pointing upstairs as she said, “go lock up.” I told her the device was in the basement because I was modifying it, and she replied, “I don’t care where it is, put it on.” So I did. Frankly, it was a challenge; I was so hard from being ordered to do it that I could barely fit inside, but I forced it so she would get what she wanted.

I presented her with the key and said… “go put it on my night stand like usual” wow! …usual??? This is only the third time ever she has even known about it, and the second time she’s asked me to wear it.

Mixed feelings:

• On one hand, this is everything I want…to be locked up to become a better man, with my wife dictating the terms;
• on the other, my wife needs me to be strong right now; she is depressed, but perhaps she senses that I am a better friend when locked???
• She rewarded me somewhat for my bad behavior. In three days, I’ll likely be sore and it won’t feel like much of a reward, but we will have to see how she handles it.
• An authentic HT3 Nano is arriving in two days, and I was hoping that would be my next long-term lock-up as it’s more comfortable!

I guess overall, I am really excited that she decided to punish me with the cage and make me present her the key. I need to help her through this tough time and be better with the kids. I think she is picking up on cues that I do well with fewer orgasms; when locked, I cling to her like an oxygen bottle while underwater.

Chastity is such a small part of our challenging lives right now, but I was shocked that Mrs. Vanilla would punish me this way…fun and interesting…(like chastity is)