Out & Accepted

In the nearly twelve months we’ve spent exploring male chastity—what we now affectionately call “my wonderful frustration”—our bond has blossomed into one of such openness and acceptance that it genuinely delights us to contrast our current state with how things used to be.

Last weekend, I finally opened up to Melissa. I admitted not only that I have bisexual leanings but also that I had acted on them three times in the past, albeit years ago. I explained that while men aren’t typically my usual type, given the right person and circumstances, I’d love to explore that side of myself again.

To my surprise, she took it all in stride!

As we kept talking, she revealed a secret: perhaps, just possibly, if everything aligned perfectly, she would enjoy seeing what life was like with a woman.

Our shared dream is discovering another couple who can be both our friends and lovers when the moment calls for it. Picture a lovely evening out, some dinner, a few drinks, and then us all simply enjoying each other’s company.

I realize bringing others into the mix might seem at odds with traditional chastity dynamics. For us, however, it doesn’t diminish the reality of my cage. Melissa remains firmly in charge regardless of what else we do!

Beyond the big dreams, though, the greatest benefit has been simply telling her that I can indeed like men sometimes, and hearing back that she loves me for who I am without anything changing between us. Michael