Strategies for truly halting masturbation

Hi all. I’m fairly new to this forum, and this is my second post here (following the hello thread) but my first dedicated topic. My wife and I kicked off our chastity journey in late November 2023, so we’re quite fresh with it. It was my idea; I surprised my wonderful wife when I brought it up, and she was very receptive, thank goodness. We started because my excessive masturbation had become a significant issue for me, though I believe it will affect the whole family (myself + kids) too. So far, our relationship has improved greatly. Sex is definitely better than ever! It’s much more intense now. We both really enjoy this setup, and I think we’ll keep using cages long-term (primarily on me:D). I wear a cage 24/7/365 because my wife wants it and I do too. In fact, I start feeling uncomfortable when I don’t have one. I’ve stopped masturbating almost completely—about 95% of the time. It’s still possible to do so occasionally; I sometimes waste time on it. My porn consumption has also dropped by about 95%. Sometimes I watch, but it doesn’t stimulate me as much because I can touch myself partially (though not fully) through the cage bars. The current cage allows enough space for a finger to slip between the bars and provide stimulation. It’s not quite as effective as using my whole hand, but… Also, vigorous jerking against the cage can bring me close to climax without cumming. Fortunately, I haven’t ejaculated yet because I feel more pleasure from sex while frustrated inside the cage. If I really wanted to cum, it wouldn’t be a problem either. Plus, I don’t want to let my wife down; I want 100% commitment. I initially thought the Locked in Lust - The Vice cage would solve everything thanks to its anti-pull system, but wearing it for long periods causes swelling of my foreskin… I also bought a safe that only my wife can open (to store vibrators and other tempting items). The current metal cage allows me to pull out my penis (and do the rest…), but we added extra security with thread so I won’t be able to return unnoticed—it works! I ordered new cages to address the issue of too much space between bars, which should help with the stimulation problem. My question after this long post is: What can I do about stimulation from vigorous cage jerking? I feel like no cage fully prevents it. Any solutions? I’m a guy who likes/needs highly efficient solutions (physical or mental), so I want to fix these issues. Do you have any ideas? Maybe how to break my habit/thinking in this regard? How can I stop thinking about masturbation 100% of the time? I know it’s a complex issue, but I’m counting on all of you!;) Thank you in advance. P.S. Sorry for my English; I’m from Europe:D