I hold the key and I do not really get anything out of it. Is that a problem?

My husband asked, I said yes, and eleven months later I am still holding. He loves it. I like that he loves it. But the actual chastity part does nothing for me at all, and I have started to wonder whether that is going to be a problem eventually.

Right now it is fine because I enjoy the effect on him. He is more attentive, he is in a better mood, he talks to me more. That is a real benefit even if it is second hand.

Is anyone else running it this way long term? Does the second hand thing hold up, or does it wear thin?