Chastity in vanilla life discussion

I constantly look for reliable sources to understand how women view chastity. A lot of the content available is written by men and focused on male pleasure, but I want more female viewpoints.

I recently came across this blog. It doesn’t have many posts yet, but it seems like a useful guide for both husbands trying to introduce their wives to chastity and for those wives themselves.

As someone attempting to convince my wife, I found some valuable insights into the female perspective on kink. Essentially, what appeals to me as a Dom having his partner locked up doesn’t always seem so helpful to non-kinky women. Offering them sexual control and keeping a sex slave around might feel like more trouble than it’s worth for them. Since they are vanilla because their current sex life isn’t particularly satisfying, giving them even more responsibility can be tricky. Sorry men, it’s tough to sell them on the fantasy when they already believe (or think) we’re pretty bad at pleasing them.

For women… well, let me explain from a male perspective. It seems there is something in it for them too, including those without any particular kinkiness. I suspect some of her posts might persuade vanilla women, though perhaps partly due to hope.

Give it a look. You might find value here as well.