Introductions discussion

hello all, I am fairly new to the world of chastity. My mistress (who is also my wife) has been in a d/s dynamic for twelve years now. Last month, I endured five weeks locked up and was permitted four release periods for masturbation during that time. Now I’m back in the device, and we are experimenting with the bead game this round. Every time I give oral pleasure to my mistress, I get to draw a bead from the bag. The rules are: pick the single black bead and you earn your freedom; pick one of the 15 clear beads and you stay locked for another day; or pick one of the 15 white ones, which means staying in place but enduring a punishment. However, if I fail to provide that oral satisfaction, an extra bead gets tossed into the mix. I did well last night when it was my turn and pulled out a white bead. Right now I’m sitting here typing this, perched on six tender welts left by my mistress’s favorite cane. This morning I roused her with some thorough pussy licking, and I’ll be picking another draw once she gets back from work. Fingers crossed it’s the black one.