Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

member_9c57e6f3d9 · 2026-09-01T09:58:23.000Z · 0 replies

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After snapping two CB-6000 rings, my GF/Mistress and I went with a birdlocked as the replacement. It showed up just days later, but work interfered. A 37-day run sent me away, so I missed its arrival. We were close again about a week after that, and Mistress visited, bringing the new cage along for the trip. After some wonderful time together, it was time to head out once more, and she instructed me to put it on. At our destination, I gladly did just that—Her small padlock was in place with no key. The first 24 hours were fantastic! I felt so happy being back under Her chastity. But since then? It’s been a roller coaster ride. Sometimes the fit feels perfect; other times uncomfortable, and at night it can be quite painful. There’s nothing wrong with how it fits—I check multiple times daily to confirm that much. My conclusion is I’m in another break-in period now, which has started affecting my job performance because I can’t get enough sleep to work safely. So far so good, but I worry things might worsen before they improve.

I shared these concerns with Mistress and she understood completely. She said I could take it off if necessary and mentioned slipping the backup key into my bathroom bag during our time together. It’s been on for 16 days now. My best was seventeen; by the time we get back home, that will be thirty-one.

Since doing my job is important right now, feeling guilty about removing it for a couple of days weighs heavily upon me. I know she prefers me prioritizing work over comfort—but sometimes when you do one thing well, another suffers slightly. Even though taking it off temporarily makes sense considering everyone else involved in our lives together…

Has anyone else experienced this? What solutions did you find effective?

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